7 Quick Tips To Step Into Your Power Right Now.

I was authentic

I showed up as myself.

I was in my truth and I said the truth.

See, I was cheated on a few years ago, and it did majorly suck and it was because of this persons insecurity.

But guess what, dare say that in an interview!

Let me break it down for you to better paint the picture.

Someone asked to interview me recently, I was super excited, we got together talked and spoke about the rawness and realness of being cheated on while dating someone with a massive following long term and living together.

I was with this person for a year and a half, it was very much a part of my past just as much as it is his.

What happened was real, the feelings were deep, and as a person and especially as a woman I should be allowed to speak up about it.

So, when I opened up about it in this particular interview, he and someone close to him asked for it to be taken down for his reputation.

It never mentioned names, just how I felt to be cheated on for a year and a half and how I forgave him and had so much and still have so much compassion for him.

The thing is I’m not even upset about the past relationship at all, I found our relationship a complete blessing because when it was over, I went on to do a ton of soul searching, met my guru (or life guide if that word is easier for you to swallow) that I have been studying under for 4 years, and began years of learning, unlearning, letting go, accepting my past, standing in my truth, showing up authentically and stepping into my power.

The interview was infact taken down and therefore I felt completely silenced. It’s okay for him to have spoken about me on podcasts and interviews, but the second I open up years later and get raw, honest and authentic it has to be taken down.

I mean, okay, at the end of the day I didn’t let it majorly get to me.

I expressed what happened, I was raw, real and open with nothing sugar coated. So I said to myself, “well, if this has to be taken down, so be it, because at the end of the day I know I was fully in my power and my truth”!

Here’s the thing though, this happens everyday.

Women all over the world are being silenced for their opinions, their feelings and from standing in their power.

I don’t want this to happen to you, what I want for you is, to reclaim your feminine power. Step into that and lean deeply into that.

I want you to feel so comfortable speaking honestly about your feelings.

Standing in your boundaries and showing up fully as you are, with your past and all.

I want you to always feel safe within, and never silenced.

How do you start you may ask?

Here are 7 quick tips to step into your feminine power right now.

• Allow yourself to show up fully as you are.
• Accept and forgive your past. Know that it doesn’t define you and it doesn’t create the outcome of your future.
• Know, that you have choices. You always have a choice. Whether it is to say no, or say yes. Make that choice and feel connected to it without question.
• Honor yourself, this is huge. Honoring yourself is possibly one of the most important ways to stand in your power. Do what is true to you fully and unapologetically.
• Set your boundaries and stand confidently in them. Know that it is okay to have boundaries and that they come from a very empowered place not a wounded place.
• Stand in your sacred NO. When it’s not okay for you in your heart and it doesn’t feel right stand in that!
• Get comfortable with having the uncomfortable conversations. This is the foundation of success in life and especially relationships.

Once we are able to fully be in our feminine power, even when moments come up and you may feel silenced you will be able to come from the place of your truth rather than feeling like you need to prove your truth.

Try adopting at least one of these ways today and comment below to let me know how it works for you!